It has been one of those questions that has eluded humanity since time immemorial: What is the secret of attraction? Simply put, there is no hidden science to explain it, but it would be fair to say that some have it, whilst others struggle to react well with potential mates or lovers.
It would be all too easy to say the secret lies in the physical aspect, though this of course does play an increasingly fundamental part in the seduction process in western world.
It would also be too simplistic to put such secrets down to communication; be it verbal or through body language.
In essence then, it can be described as a combination of all three factors.
However, what of a fourth; more elusive factor? What of subliminal messaging, that is broadcast on a higher level than normal human consciousness allows us to see? It is no secret; of attraction or otherwise, that human beings are made up of nothing more than electricity and nerves.
Working at extremely high frequencies, it is believed that signals are transmitted between the mind, body and soul; that are quite apart from anything we would remain lucid of.
Think about when you were last excited or stimulated when first meeting someone.
Okay, so you may have found them attractive, but what was it that makes you blush, makes your heart race, and, (more pertinently), makes you talk on their level? It is interesting isn't it? However, it is thought that whilst subliminal, these skills can be taught.
Many experts in the field believe that it is through giving off a confident exterior that promotes both the development and transmission of these messages.
Such a theory could well hold some water too; people are naturally attracted to someone they feel is confident, without being arrogant.
It is a fine line between the two; but getting it right could well be the real secret of attraction.